5 Steps To Winning Back Ex Girlfriend

Allow me to guess. You just broke up, you are miserable, lonely, desperate, in pain, and winning back ex girlfriend is your top priority. I believe I can help. If you are committed to winning back ex girlfriend, the following 5 steps will help.
1. Relax and remember to breath.
What I mean by this is the world has not ended. Life will go on. I know you are hurting, I get that. But panic must be held at bay. Lots of people start begging, pleading, saying they'll change, texting and calling constantly. This never works, and if you are doing it, stop.
2. Accept responsibility to yourself.
This is a big pill to swallow. No one is saying it is all your fault. No one ever is. Understand what your part of the blame is. You will apologize for it, but not yet. The first step is designed to give you an idea of how your ex sees things. Acknowledge to yourself and accept your part in the break up. Just accept what you do to infuriate them. Winning back ex girlfriend absolutely requires this step.
3. Continue breathing.
You now know life on earth will continue. And you have realized you were partly to blame in the break up. Now it is time to start winning back ex girlfriend. Here is how you do this step. Tell your ex what you discovered about yourself in the first two steps. Tell them you now realize you were taking them for granted and not appreciating them. (News flash, that is why they broke up with you, end of discussion.), apologize for what YOU specifically did, and tell them you agree with the break up. This is where you start breathing again. Leave it at that, hang up, leave, or whatever. This is not the time to move further.
This is slightly manipulative, but they will never know it. I don't care what you call this, reverse psychology, whatever, just do it. You push they pull. Sound like an argument yet? This allows you to push with them not against them. Do not try to make them jealous, this will surely blow up in your face.
4. Resume life.
If you can't do this, fake it and pretend. Do not hole up in your house. Go out with friends. Make every one think you are over the break up. Do not make contact with your ex, no calling, texting, emailing, etc. If that can't be helped, smile when you see them, act like a happy stranger. Trust me, she is checking up on you, and she will notice your behavior. What is important here is to allow some time to pass, not years,, three weeks to a month should be sufficient. Here is another news flash, your ex does miss you, let that work in your favor.
5. Make contact.
It's show time. This contact is the beginning. Invite them to have coffee or lunch. This is not a date, just a short timed meeting, do not make this an all day or evening affair. Nothing that they can perceive will lead farther. At lunch, do not try to rekindle everything, and do not drudge the past. Pretend you are having lunch with an old friend. Keep it simple and light, make them laugh. Now, you are ready to cement yourself back into their mind. Are you ready? Make a motion with your finger to the side of your mouth, politely letting them know they have something on their face, pretend They will instantly grab their napkin, and wipe their mouth. You are in.
Let me explain. Telling someone with a motion that they have something on their face, would only be done by someone who loves the other person. You have never done it to a stranger have you. This is something husbands and wives do. In her mind, you are together as a loving caring couple from that one simple gesture.

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